Self help is the Best help
Good evening friends!!
For instance, you are a student who has passed class tenth this year and aspires to become an engineer, doctor or say for example an IAS officer. What is the first thing would be coming to your mind??
I'll tell you. After getting the results and before enrolling in the class 11th of your desired stream OR many a times its not even your choice. It is just forced on you like a command of a dictator in his reign, the only thing we do is get into some or the other coaching classes, which promise us the so-called SUCCESS or assure you of getting admission into the best institutes of the country, which does happens so often. And even in many cases we get know the things like "student committed suicide out depression". This is highly common in the aspirants for engineering and medical.
"Have we ever thought that why this happens ?"
One of the few reasons are here....
Firstly, parents will start knitting dreams or conceiving desires or in more clear words they would start building expectations from their beloved who has just start to utter words or sometime started going to a play school. And here starts the real problem or IMITATION CULTURE yes , and it is not so good as imitation jewellery, which helps you to show off in without being a burden to your pocket. But this is soething which only worsen the matter. Like I side, IMITATION CULTURE. Right after the child is admiitted in the school or sometimes even before that, they will start investing or to me its WASTING in the form of coaching classes or hobby classes etc. Leave alone development and helping, but in turn, this only creates pressure on that innocent child. "Arey Bhai bacchaa hai, pressure cooker thodi hi hai, chod do yaar".
The reason is parents are no doubt, investing a lot out of their hard earned money for the betterment of their beloved. But they are failing to do something which can be called as"Ideal parenting"
They are telling them everything about their surroundings, their society. They are providing them all sort of knowledge about the ongoing things of the world. Today's child will know everything but he will not have any idea what he has got within himself. He will not know the value of hardwork, persistence, independence not just in thoughts but also in practice. And the most important one he'll not be self-reliant. He'll be dependent on other people for the most.
From the days of nurser school, till the time he's completing his grads and sometimes even after that. He is not given a chance to think or exercise his mind.
So, finally here I am ending this long blog with my final words.
"Realise the potential within. Don't blindly be a the part of the RACE."
Have your heart in whatever you do. Listen to your parent but more importantly to your heart.
Go for the optimum utilisation of the available resources.
Choose judiciously, live well.
And in the end
Self help is the best help.
Always remember, "what you can do for yourself, no one else can do it."
For instance, you are a student who has passed class tenth this year and aspires to become an engineer, doctor or say for example an IAS officer. What is the first thing would be coming to your mind??
I'll tell you. After getting the results and before enrolling in the class 11th of your desired stream OR many a times its not even your choice. It is just forced on you like a command of a dictator in his reign, the only thing we do is get into some or the other coaching classes, which promise us the so-called SUCCESS or assure you of getting admission into the best institutes of the country, which does happens so often. And even in many cases we get know the things like "student committed suicide out depression". This is highly common in the aspirants for engineering and medical.
"Have we ever thought that why this happens ?"
One of the few reasons are here....
Firstly, parents will start knitting dreams or conceiving desires or in more clear words they would start building expectations from their beloved who has just start to utter words or sometime started going to a play school. And here starts the real problem or IMITATION CULTURE yes , and it is not so good as imitation jewellery, which helps you to show off in without being a burden to your pocket. But this is soething which only worsen the matter. Like I side, IMITATION CULTURE. Right after the child is admiitted in the school or sometimes even before that, they will start investing or to me its WASTING in the form of coaching classes or hobby classes etc. Leave alone development and helping, but in turn, this only creates pressure on that innocent child. "Arey Bhai bacchaa hai, pressure cooker thodi hi hai, chod do yaar".
The reason is parents are no doubt, investing a lot out of their hard earned money for the betterment of their beloved. But they are failing to do something which can be called as"Ideal parenting"
They are telling them everything about their surroundings, their society. They are providing them all sort of knowledge about the ongoing things of the world. Today's child will know everything but he will not have any idea what he has got within himself. He will not know the value of hardwork, persistence, independence not just in thoughts but also in practice. And the most important one he'll not be self-reliant. He'll be dependent on other people for the most.
From the days of nurser school, till the time he's completing his grads and sometimes even after that. He is not given a chance to think or exercise his mind.
So, finally here I am ending this long blog with my final words.
"Realise the potential within. Don't blindly be a the part of the RACE."
Have your heart in whatever you do. Listen to your parent but more importantly to your heart.
Go for the optimum utilisation of the available resources.
Choose judiciously, live well.
And in the end
Self help is the best help.
Always remember, "what you can do for yourself, no one else can do it."
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